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Myself Sonja, doing research in child psychology. Clinical child psychology is a specialty in professional psychology that develops and applies scientific knowledge to the delivery of psychological services to infants, toddlers, children and adolescents within their social context.

My research on the psychological problems in school children led to conclude, the competitive circumstances in schools make kids’ life more stressful and complicated. In fact, they don’t want to compete with their friends. The pressure from teachers and parents make them to compete. They always want to be peaceful and of course, kids should be provided with that.

For a good learning atmosphere, the teaching methodology should be simple and something which they could easily follow. And they expect some joy and fun in their classroom. I would like to tell the teachers, try a different atmosphere to bring the best in your students. You can try learning through games, in case of Maths, the most difficult subject for kids. For further training and excellence, certain programs like GSE Preparation and Georgia Milestones Practice program are available for kids in grade K-5 which is enjoyable for both teachers and students.


Let’s give our children what they deserve!

Hey, my name is Grettel. I totally agree with you. I believe that competition in schools only adds on stress to the students when in fact we should create a peaceful environment for children to learn and enjoy learning. I think that we should focus instruction on cooperative learning instead of making students compete against each other. Parents too, should not put as much pressure on their children to always be the best at everything.

Hello Everyone, Yes, I completely agree with everyone. Competition in schools within the classroom causes students to have stress, and also have lack of social behaviors. Meaning that students will have less interaction with each other. I think ALL teachers should create a peaceful environment for students to learn, and help them strive to be the best they can be. When there is competition within the classroom it takes away from cooperative learning and causes behavioral issues amongst students. As one the post stated above parents should pressure on their children on competing amongst their peers, and also allow their children to be the best at their own pace.

I agree with this to an extent. I think that a small amount of competition is important for students to partake in. It teaches that not everything is easy to accomplish in life. Student's need to learn to work hard, be persistent, and fight for what they want. Competition in the classroom can also teach students problem solving. Teaches them that if they fail, that sometimes you have to problem solve or think differently to accomplish something. I agree that it can cause stress and that students may not want to be involved, but give them the option. In my 10 years experience working with 2- 10 year olds, they love games and competitions. Have the children work together, using team building skills.

Here I agree with you that a competitive environment in schools makes life more stressful for children, that pressure from parents and teachers makes them compete with each other. But unfortunately not everyone understands the correctness of parenting and everyone has their own views. I'm a child's psychologist at calmerry reviews an online psychology platform, and I've had patients who I've helped solve this problem and made clear that their child's choices should be respected.

I agree that competition can make certain situations more stressful and less appealing, but I also believe that competition is beneficial to students as it creates opportunities to challenge ourselves and to grow. I think competition can be taught differently. I think as educators we have an opportunity to host healthy competitive lesson plans that allow students to take charge and dictate the rules and regulations that make it safe and laid back. I also am biased because I am an athlete who grew up with four brothers so competition was a given. 

I believe competition between kids can have a negative impact in their lifes. Some students at an early stage don't see the difference between one project or another. What they do see and have clear is the illusions and effort that they made as they prepared their project. Having to hear that their friends project is better at times can be very stressful and hard to understand for some. Therefor, I discourage science fair projects competitions.